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For a long time, Jenny thought she was to blame for men treating her badly. The female-only forum on social media platform Reddit hassubscribers and describes itself as a place to discuss effective dating strategies for women. That's a strong subscriber base considering all members are women and Reddit is a male-dominated space, says Dr Emily van der Nagel, a lecturer in social media at Monash University. She says the easiest way to understand FDS is to think of it as a reaction to the phenomenon of 'pick-up artistry'.

While it's helped Jenny stop settling for toxic men, FDS's entrenched ideologies mean it's not a safe space for everyone. Female Dating Strategy encourages women to "level-up" and seek a "high-value man" who will treat them like a queen. Subscribers are encouraged to read the FDS Handbook before posting, and are warned any posts contradicting the group's ideology will be removed.

That's typical for a successful subreddit, explains Dr van der Nagel, who says they benefit from being specific about what is allowed. People will upvote relevant content and downvote that which is irrelevant. Some of the group's principles include:. Other themes that hint at the subreddit's sexually conservative nature include disapproval of consensual BDSM and watching porn.

But she says it's a valid criticism the group is only advancing a specific version of female dating. Jenny says while she doesn't agree with all of FDS's beliefs, it has helped shift her perspective about men. She says women attracted to Female Dating Strategy have likely had bad dating experiences in the past.

Jenny says in her experience, you don't have to fully agree with everything in the FDS handbook to still benefit from it.

Dr van der Nagel says there are a lot of positive stories on FDS such as "My ex used to do this and made me feel awful, but now I have a high-value man and he is respectful". Get our newsletter for the best of ABC Everyday each week. ABC Everyday helps you navigate life's challenges and choices so you can stay on top of the things that matter to you.

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ABC Everyday. Print content Print with images and other media. Print text only. Print Cancel. It treats dating and relationships as a game. What is Female Dating Strategy? Some of the group's principles include: Being a "high value" woman — one who doesn't revolve her life around men, with her own career and hobbies; Letting men do the chasing. A man's role is to be the pursuer, the one to convince you that he's the right man for you.

As a woman, you don't have to prove yourself to him; Not having sex before commitment has been established. It's not queer-friendly. Dr van der Nagel says FDS is trying to "beat the boys at their own game".

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Reddit’s Female Dating Strategy offers women advice — and a strict rulebook for how to act